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Is Marriage Becoming Obsolete?

December 15, 2011 Blogs, David, Feature 1 Comment
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I read an article today that cited a Pew Center survey reporting that 40% of Americans believe that the institution of marriage is becoming obsolete. Obsolete! In 1972, the rate of marriage in the United States was 72%. Today, the rate is 51% and projections indicate that married people will be in the minority within several years. The median age of first marriage has increased from around 21 in 1960 to 27.5 today. The new marriage rate (those married within the last 12 months) has decreased from 41 per thousand in 2008 to 37.4 per thousand in 2010. It’s not looking good for the home team, folks! … Continue Reading

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September 16, 2011 Episodes, Feature, Front Catalog 2 Comments
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September 16, 2011 Allyson, Feature 2 Comments
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Austin made me so proud of him on Wednesday.

The best part was when two other moms came out and intentionally found me to tell me what a wonderful son I have.
Hannah has volleyball practice on Wednesdays in the mornings and this really messes up our homeschool day. What are the other five of us suppose to do for two and a half hours and one of us is only two? The other day I decided that we would drop Hannah off, take the recycling, and then hang out at the library. It was a  perfect plan and it turned out more perfectly than I thought.

We got to the library just as they were starting their toddler reading time. Austin said, “Please let me take Mattie Claire.”  He enjoys going to the library, but he goes in already knowing what he wants, which lately has been any book in the Alex Rider series. I agreed to let him take her into the 30 minute toddler time looking forward to my bit of peace and quiet.  A little bit of mommy time was just what I needed after Tuesday, but that’s another story.

After 15 minutes I decided that I should check on him to make sure she was behaving and that he was OK.  Well, for security reasons they lock the doors and you can’t get in after they have started.  Sure, you can talk to the librarian and she will let you in, but my reason wasn’t exactly an emergency so I decided to just wait it out.  At 10:35 here came Mattie Claire running across the library with her construction paper penguin and bursting at the seams with stuff to tell me.  They danced, listened to stories, sang, played in the bubbles, and did a craft.  She had a blast.  He said that she was the loudest baby in there because she was so excited.

The best part was when two other moms came out and intentionally found me to tell me what a wonderful son I have.  They were very moved with the way that he interacted with Mattie Claire and how he took care of her.  They could tell that he loves her very much.  I don’t think I could have been smiling any bigger.  I am very proud of Austin.  He is a great son and he does love his baby sister beyond belief.  They are looking forward to next Wednesday for the toddler reading time.

Angel of God My Guardian Dear

September 14, 2011 Deacon Tom, Feature 4 Comments
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Does anyone, anywhere still have angel pictures prevalent in their home these days? Close by the baby’s crib? In the children’s playroom? Are angels even meaningful to us ‘moderns?’

I used to go to a hair stylist when we lived in San Francisco. (NB: When you live in San Francisco – they are stylists – never barbers. But I digress.) Over some years of going to Lisa – I came to know that she was a former Catholic. Religion still tugged at her somewhat. But Lisa wasn’t practicing. She had a sort of left-coast approach to organized religion.

Lisa had a thing about angels. She had angels everywhere around her work area. There were angels visible; there were angels partially hidden in potted plants and in wispy material that might look like or actually be referred to as angel-hair. You know the kind of white material that someone might put up as part of a Halloween display? That’s the stuff I’m talking about. And in those areas where Lisa had created some sort of ethereal display, she placed angels.

Not that these displays had anything to do with non-corporeal and beautiful, intelligent spirits. No. Lisa’s angels were good mood and good luck and good intention sort of objects. Look at the angels and think good thoughts!

Most of us cradle Catholics were raised to know of angels. We used to think of them as crossing guards and good behavior icons. And the nuns helped maintain that sort of approach to them with the prayer we had to learn: “Angel of God, my guardian dear. To whom God’s love commits me here. Ever this day be at my side, to light, to lead, to rule and guide.”

We can hold on to that thought, but let’s consider also what our Catholic Catechism tells us: “Angels are spiritual creatures who glorify God without ceasing and who serve His saving plans for other creatures: “The angels work together for the benefit of us all.” (St. Thomas Aquinas) CCC350.

Now recently, maybe my Guardian Angel (yes, I believe!) has been helping me to read more and be reminded more of the angels. I may even have more than one angel assigned to me. Not that I’m that special (although I’ve been marked with the sign of ordination as a deacon, thanks be to God!). You may have multiple angels assigned to you as well.

I’ve been trying to remember to pray each morning to my angel(s). Help me today. Guide me today. Steer me today.

So maybe I shouldn’t make light of Lisa’s angel displays. Because they might be a reminder to remain aware. Awareness of the beauty and the power and the intelligence that is unseen but which remains near us.

As Mike Aquilina wrote in his Servant Books publication, Angels of God: The Bible, the Church and the Heavenly Hosts:

“The main thing is to be aware of the angels around you—and get in the habit of calling upon them for little favors.  Invoke them silently as you begin each conversation, as you dial the phone, as you start to reply to an e-mail.  Ask them to give you the right words.  Ask them to help you avoid words that can damage your relationships and compromise your Christian witness.”  NB again: I’ve been known to explode from time to time — this last sentence is appropriate for me at least. (Maybe I could do a column on justifiable anger some time. Any thoughts on that?)

I can’t say if they helped or not, but I invoked my angel/s while writing this column. Let me know if you think my words were heavenly. :-)

Blessings.

Deacon Tom

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